This is the last part of the 6 part series all about self-love. You can find part 1 HERE, part 2 HERE, part 3 HERE, part 4 HERE, and part 5 HERE.

Working on making yourself better is an admirable quality. It is good to focus attention on your personal development and be growing and reaching higher. However, this is often shrouded in negativity. Meaning, often we are not trying to improve ourselves because we are excited about it or because we think it will be fun. Often, we are constantly focused on making ourselves better because we are focused on the fact that we are not enough. We are focused on our flaws and trying to cover or fix them.

This is not an enjoyable or healthy way to live. You are so much more than your perceived flaws.

Also, the problem with this approach to personal development is that you will never be satisfied. You will always have something new to overcome and judge yourself for.

Feeling like you aren’t enough will hold you back from reaching your full potential. It will hold you back from that amazing relationship you desire, because you don’t think you have enough to offer to someone who is just right for you. It will hold you back from that fulfilling career you’ve always wanted, because you don’t ever feel fully qualified to even give it a go. It will hold you back from feeling confident and sexy in your own skin, because your body could always be better and you can’t stop focusing on your insecurities instead of embracing your beauty.

You are already enough to have the life you desire, just the way you are.

You already have everything inside of you to achieve what you want. It is this mindset of not being enough that actually needs to be worked on. You can work on this through a practice of self-love. A practice of reminding yourself all you are capable of and all you have to offer the world. A practice of showing yourself love and compassion.

You deserve the love you keep giving everyone else.

Start going for your dreams. Start approaching personal development as a work of self-love. Start taking risks and testing what you are actually capable of before you even know if you can. Approach this life like an adventure that you get to explore.

Share with me in the comments below how you are enough and what step you are going to take towards the life you desire.

I want you to join me in the Self-Love Quest which is a free 5 day event of epic self-love.

Much love, Danielle